How do you deal with negative family members like this when you are trying to change?

Question by R: How do you deal with negative family members like this when you are trying to change?
I admit I have started and stopped many things in my life. I have started Weight Loss plans and fell off the wagon there, I have started counseling and stopped (either because of insurance reasons or just letting life take priority). I have learned we can only move forward, however, and the future is not the past. However My mom is not very encouraging. I feel really REALLY bad about myself already, but when i try to take a step forward such as Weight Loss or counseling or things like that, she will say "well you've tried that before and you always give up"
I guess it's her way of preparing me to fail...but it's very non-supportive and like I said I can't go back and change the past .
martell...must be nice to not give crap about your family or their opinion of you . I'm being real...tell me how to be so cold hearted.
and I've owned my own home for 5 years now, thanks.


Best answer:

Answer by Martell
YOU SURE PUT A LOT OF RESPONSIBILITY ON YOUR MOM FOR YOUR NOT CHANGING! I don't know how old you are, but go see a therapist at your community mental health agency! Get help there. If you are an adult, then MOVE OUT OF YOUR PARENT'S HOME! Go to college by borrowing student loan money. Move into a student boarding house...Grow up! Achieve your work or school goals, and your weight issue will follow suit!

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